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    Any Advise how to find GF?
    hallo..I got a problem over my study life! The gal I wanted mostly already have bf..while the gal which I don't want to have as my gf..mostly come to me.. So how to avoid this problem??

    any pro here?
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    If you can't love the one you want, love the one you're with. Plus if the girl you want has another gf, maybe she's not into guys. So could be a case of barking up the wrong tree unless you are female?


    edited to add - aha you changed gf to bf
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    Quote Originally Posted by TrustNo1
    If you can't love the one you want, love the one you're with. Plus if the girl you want has another gf, maybe she's not into guys. So could be a case of barking up the wrong tree unless you are female?

    OPS...SRY! Wrong typing is BF..hehe..

    Hmm..How to choose those gal are still single.. 20 out 19 i choose all got bf..sometimes Almost success already..end up knowing she got bf..feel guity bout it..coz breaking ppl relationship..then I stop there.. (sometimes they tend to call me playboy, but I feel sry to their bf).

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    seriously..I don't play them ok! is just that ...I don't want to be a gf stealer..sometimes gal don't tell us direct.. always let me guess ..I am not good at guessing! when I ask them do they have partner, some say you say leh? I assume nope! (positive thinking) going out a while...suddenly i get a call from nobody warn me ..not to go out wit their gf.. some even beg me..HAIZ..is it so hard to get a gf i always dream bout it??

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    The bf should be mad at the gf since they know they have a bf but you have no idea since they're not being upfront with you. So not your fault.

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    COnfidence and a big stick (to knock them out with and drag them to your lair ... nothing nasty!):-)
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    oic..but mostly they will blame te boys u know!! we r the victim...they trust their gf more than stranger u see...

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    Rexanne how does he find the right one? The one without a bf. He has no problem getting them, has to shake them off with a stick. They just never tell him they have a bf already.

    "we r the victim..."

    For real. It weighs on me too sometimes.

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    I think zx88 should count his blessings

    I wish my wife would find a bf. There's an idea! I'll find one for her!
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    *sigh* - big problem ;-)
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    swt swt!

    y count my blessing?

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    Quote Originally Posted by zx88
    swt swt!

    y count my blessing?
    I have three smilies that I can post to give you a suggestion on what to do, but since I am seeing two females looking on this thread and I can't be that disrespectful to female members of ABW, all I can tell you right now is to just use:

    your imagination! Or or your hands.
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    oh great..haha thx anyway..

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    We sex goddesses all have it tough, too!

    Don't we, Rexanne?
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    Quote Originally Posted by SSanf
    We sex goddesses all have it tough, too!

    Don't we, Rexanne?

    hmm..so what is ur problem? hehe

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    Quote Originally Posted by TrustNo1
    The bf should be mad at the gf since they know they have a bf but you have no idea since they're not being upfront with you. So not your fault.
    yeah yeah, but know I'd feel a lot better after breaking the other guys nose

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    SWT!! how many you are going to take it down! there are ton of guy out there..sometimes I myself also feel bore when they act like this!

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    Quote Originally Posted by zx88
    ...I don't want to be a gf stealer..sometimes gal don't tell us direct.. always let me guess ..I am not good at guessing!
    If you see the woman that you want, don't let another man stand in your path. Be aggressive, without being physical. A good woman likes a strong man. Stop the guessing and show her that you are more self confident than her present BF. Compete....and compete to win. She will like it.


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    Quote Originally Posted by SSanf
    We sex goddesses all have it tough, too!

    Don't we, Rexanne?
    Uh huh - beating them off daily
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    Quote Originally Posted by Witzer
    If you see the woman that you want, don't let another man stand in your path. Be aggressive, without being physical. A good woman likes a strong man. Stop the guessing and show her that you are more self confident than her present BF. Compete....and compete to win. She will like it.


    My mother used to say "Be carefull of the wrapper. You never know what is behind the curtain"

    O..I c..thx 4 tat superb advice..the problem lies here..if I compete there will be a winner or loser here..if I win ..I will just break their relationship this will create sadness 2 the boys..if I lose..I don't really lost something..

    ok I will compete wit them next time...feel sry to the next victim haha.

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